I also appreciate the creativity of this author by portraying Libra's negative image since I was really bored of those charming and peaceful stories about Libras ..cheers and peace. HELL NO. me, me, me..lie. Its that I still struggle loving myself and getttin my wants and needs. I, pity myself to the point where i start crying. 04/8Libra. I Definetly repress anger and am secretive. The Libra 2 guy I knew literally created a conflict between a Sagitarrius girl I did NOT know -- she was sending me DM's telling me how much she HATED me and I was thinking, I don't know this girl and she doesn't know me except for seeing photos of me with Mr. Libra on Facebook. In my head and finding out how my mind games are going in my head. However I met a libra and she's like me but diffrent. So one must learn to defend themselves from harmful emotions. I, remember all the bad stuff anyone has ever done to me BUT i have a patience of a God. The content produced by YourTango is for informational and educational purposes only. Take time to self-reflect and grow as a person. They are highly intuitive and have a good grasp of psychology. Fast forward my boyfriend (Aries) with (Libra) moon broke up with me today. It might sound detrimental to others, but a Libra would rather put others' feelings first before their own. 1.) Wow! If you think libras like the fine things and fancy clothes, they want the best public image as well. When charged with bad behavior, they will say, Oh, Im such a bad person. Like a few here said earlier, there's more to the picture about the signs, you have to look at the sum total of your chart. I avoid confrontations and drama if at all possible. Not even the same first letter. She also cries at the drop of a hat. The first Libra guy became interested in me from a far by noticing me on Facebook when I commented on a mutual college friend's photo (which included Mr. Libra) and I said (you guys look like a GQ magazine cover). No one believes he's got so many dark secrets in his life but only the very close ones to him, like his ex-wife who I learned, only once they got divorced, that he was very aggressive to her indoors. I am almost offended by this "even the best libras do not think you have feelings or a brain". This will influence her to shift her attention toward happiness. To start with, yes when we are grumpy we are the worst thing that can happen to humanity. Im happy i read this because hubpages looks like an awesome website. And I know there's a dark side but I'm not a dark person. I will admit that. Eventually I got tired of playing cat and mouse with him and his uncertainty that I tried to call it quits. You may want to look in the mirror first. me too. He can be flirty but is seldom emotional. I, love helping people and animals and LOVE them. I have a horrible relationship with my parents and my brother. So if i find your chatty, im out of here. Libra women have some beauty about them because they're not trying too hard and keeping things easy. It was an extremely difficult task. I eventually had enough of Libra guy. They will bottle up their feelings and keep it to themselves instead of being advocates of communication in relationships. So Im like that is the craziest thing. He also wanted an apology for every thing I said so we broke up after he exploded with me and I told him off in no uncertain terms. Im dealing with a libra mom. I'm a Capricorn we are smarter than this. It might take five years to get your own Libra male off your sofa. I found out later they talked on the phone after my wife told me. I once got angry at one of my siblings and I zoned out while I was close to their neck to chock them. I am able to bind and twist words in my favour, utilising their double meanings. Some people agreeing with this in its whole has proven they know and strongly dislike a certain libra in their life, and have no reason to disagree because of the obvious pain THAT negative libra has caused. Irritability is the worst part I hate about myself. They can also become unresponsive in conversations, making it almost impossible to get through to them when they're depressed. (4) I am skilled at photography. Cancer: Cancers can not hide their emotions and really cannot control them (for the most part that is). They will compensate for with food (especially fats, alcohol, and sweets) and urge others to overindulge along with them. TRY ME!!! The stereotype that portrays us like a sweet candy floss and charming lucky charms is so misleading. drew new lines in 1930. I have begun meeting new people like this "dont be fooled, I am not what it seems". I was married to a Virgo woman, one who heavily did the virgo thing which is pessimistically driven to chastise and be judgmental to the end. Libras are very good at hiding their emotions. I have had issues with her for over 15 years. I let her into my world denying my gut instinct and being the stupidly open person I can be, shared a few secrets - thankfully nothing shameful, just emotional things from my past. I know first hand I have a love:hate for Libra people. 3.) You can't be weak around these majestic women. It sux to say but all these dark traits are traits I have observed in myself to some degree (some more than others) and I feel it growing. Unfortunately, some people are selfish, insensitive, and don't know how to value a sincere person like myself. You won't have to worry about a Libra cheating. So this article is in no way 10% correct describing how a Libra is like when wronged. We crave beauty and an ethereal, gossamer rythm to the world around us..and the people in our lives.but we never demand anything that those around us are incapable of providing. We care about people about there feelings if some one is getting hurt we do too . I was cohabitating with one under her suggestion and without a thought (being a male & feeling totally cloud 9 to be asked), I experienced a life changing event. Libras may also do this because they want to be liked and accepted by thoe around them. (Of course I'm born in October hahaI happen to be controlling indeed toward those who get closer to me; in the work-social arenaa combination of practicality- choosing your battles- and impracticality - picking battles you can't win, just to make a point, I do that too. A lot of Librans a prone to having gallstones, kidney and dental problems. Virgo Man Not Texting Back: What Do I Do? This funk can have lasting effects until a Capricorn really gets back to their old self. Most Libras are quick to put a wall up to protect themselves from insecure, jealous, judgemental, negative, condescending people who attack them. I know a libra and she is very controlling. Because of this, they may be more prone to bottling up their feelings or acting passive-aggressive. RELATED:The Saddest Zodiac Signs That Are Most Likely To Be Depressed. Libra females are lost of words. Libras (born Sept. 23 to Oct. 22), for instance, are said to be focused on others and how they relate to them. I really don't think there should ever be an article that claims EVERY libra does such and such.. that's like saying every American likes pizza. She took the kids and tried to move into a shelter and she didn't even know why. Libra is a sign that exploits the very positive stereotype given to them in many articles, but and a big but. All the while, she is very bubbly and acts charming to get information about others. September 9, 2022 by Anna Howard. she has never ever apologized to me and never will. I let her Stew in her own poop made it worst. They will go to great lengths to achieve it, but those lengths depend on that particular Libra. If a libras dark side showing youve had to provoke them in some way. Mmm chocolate. Libras are all about relationships and balance and will go at any lengths to acheive this whether its making people feel sorry for them, misusing others for their own gain, exhibiting superficial emotions to have codependent relationships. This can harm their relationship with others. I'm Aquarius and many followed after constellations Libra and always pretended I did not notice, but they are so careful people! Our website services, content and products are not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. I will never justify our dark side. Every sign is capable of this but ive only seen it with the Scorpio sign. I can't believe this is how I am? Think of Mahatma Gandhi. He was also court ordered counseling he got out of it too. i am currently in no contact, but this time it is for good. I am a libra male born on September 23rd. He was always an atheist person who would always take p**s of me, my sis and my mum when we would go to church and give donations. but when i read this i was like wow. And just reading some of the negative opinions and attacks on Libras by others here, it just reaffirms my choice. Who could hate Gandhi? . Libras Are Trusting & Trustworthy Because they're all about trust. Mr Libra 2 also had LOT of Scorpio. It will benefit her if you take the time to support her by giving her the means to explore her interests. I was married to a Virgo, and we got along well. Libras can be extremely easy going until their sense of justice is upset. I have a stellium in libra sun moon mercury venus and they are all in the 12th house. And while it would be nice to have this kind of mind-reader in our lives, we should always make sure we understand our own emotions before we get others involved. As long as you are not looking for clear advice or decision making, 4) When we love, we love with every part of our heart, we are absolutely ready to drop anything and everything for you. Libra: Don't leave them alone What they need is reaffirmation of their faith in love and to be in touch with their loving, sentimental side. I love her like a sister. I found the article to be amusing, thought-provoking and mostly true of most people, no matter what their sign. If peace cant be had, silence and secrets will do. If Libra is raised by more stabile signs, especially if one of the parents are under the earth sign, they can help then learn to identify the emotions, so even when they don't actually feel the emotion they will understand it. It took Libran baseball idol Mark McGwire (Oct. 1) five years to confess to using steroids. She doesn't have money or a job with 3 kids luckily I still support my kids and back to her parents house. Yeah I do see these traits in myself I just find it happens when I'm being too nice or something and I always seem to attract the wrong people. Im working on how to tell which person I should be friends with and people just taking advantage of me. As you know im a libra and have a pretty hard time saying no so i find people can see that and then after a bit take advantage of that and sometimes just use me and then after a while it all just builds up into sadnesss and anger and its just ahhhh idk how to get rid of it lol oh yeah and i smile and laugh at my own misery alot idk why but i find it funny. 1) He acts shy when he is around you. Born Oct. 2, 1869, this photo was taken about 1929. Let him ask a few questions that were way out of line before lost my temper & told him to plz back the hell off. (Sun and moon are in 8th house) but he and i are good people. They are freaking insecure. yes, avoiding confrontation is not a tenable objective and will lead to outbursts (what's term in the title- yes, repressed); people born in October avoid confrontation, no = can't be proven. He did work hard to improvise that space for me. We are not too bulgar to chaos in public. The negative side of Libra is hard to bear. Some of us try really hard to break the image a handful of Librans create. Diplomatic, graceful, charming and even witty! Sat there listening in while this self righteous weirdo was really out of line! They become oppositional, but with less enthusiasm, making it seem like little things don't really matter anymore. Just dont bother try cheering up a Libran when they are in a bad mood. As a result, you hide your sadness, fear, frustration, and other so-called negative emotions. Throughout the years we dated other people but always kept in contact with each other. We are extremely patient.but not always forgiving..it is best not to cross a Libra..unless you want your soul torn to the corners of the universe. Undoubtedly, they are much easier than the older generation, succumb to feelings. I loved him at a distance because I was already attached and knew that being fully invested would break me even more. She may choose to focus her social and emotional energy on new relationships. After more than four decades, I have realized that II much more prefer the company and friendship of other fellow Librans. Of course all us libra aren't like that and have EVERY negative trait. They become anxious, isolated, and tend to "feel everything" in an attempt to cope with this giant wave of emotion. Show her that you are interested in spending time with her, as this will help you ensure that she does not create any relationships that will cause her to suffer in the future. Nobody wants to read thru all that so i'll say what really matters and make it quick. Ive tried to reach him but he wont answer. They become more serious and tense, less tolerant, and are plagued with feelings of worry when thinking about the future. Users and liars thats what the majority of librans have been to my knowledge. At this time, she may begin to feel that she has been ignored by the people that she cares about most. Nor I will treat my closed ones badly if I had a bad day. It seems not every one is on the same page though. Let's be honest ladies and gentlemen, you weren't here to read about 1000 reasons why people should love us librans.. you just got a dose of reality, live with it. Like she has some sort of ledger in her head. Beware of libra men. Ive been with a Libra since aug 2018 and b4 that i was with a mental scorpio. I don't know about everyone else but i was so stumped at myself this morning i resorted to blaming my sign. The reason they hide their feelings is because they don't want to burden the other person with their emotions. Librans can truly be cruel and selfish, manipulative and conniving. If your not a "capricunt" you have the face and attitude for one. I am a Libra, and I am artistic, love to play "wordsmith games", unfortunately my quirky sense of humor precludes anyone appreciating my "wit" most of the time. While this may seem like a negative trait, it can actually be quie . Even though they do love their mother, greatly, their elemental make up naturally gravitates towards mine, only on the basis that we understand each other on a level she will never understand, she is a Virgo sun/Cancer moon. This is very true about Libras. (5) I had a wide circle of friends and social networks. There's three types of Libra Suns: Libras who have Mercury in Virgo, Libras who have Mercury in Scorpio, and Libras who have Mercury in Libra. I wont bite ur head off lol. She balances that by verbally skewering and humiliating people. But now I discovered that I gave everything to the wrong people. I don't particularly like this post but that's because it just doesn't fit me personally. He used to sexually abuse me, in a very sadistic way, sneaking into my bed when I was sleeping. I am a only child also raised by a Libra mother. I then inherited a lot of money (and I already own my home and rent it out which I know she hated as she wasn't interested in seeing the renovation photos) and I told her my news. Exalted in saturn bring a virgo sagittarius or leo even aquarius to venus,I'm ashamed a libra represents venus,it's not love what you bring it's dirt and lies. Libra men are very indecisive. And I know that Libra's have dark side, and how deep it truly goes. Nobody tells scorpios what to do. I have to invest more time into my life so I can be happy and feel confident and accomplished being in a relationship should amplify my happiness. For what. Thats how you deal w a libra. LIBRA: Libra tends to swallow their anger and sadness. I'm surrounded by Librans in my family, was married to one for 15 years and I have a strong Libran energy with 4 planets in the 7th house (including sun, mercury and venus). She may choose to pour all of her time and energy into a single task, while simultaneously ignoring more pragmatic or practical concerns. I'll take it all. How on earth can a libra lie so long,bring up drama and then pretend to be a peace maker. Samantha Maffucci is an editor for YourTango who has written hundreds of articles about relationships, trending news and entertainment, and astrology. I, hate when dumb people try to judge or bully me. I hide my negative emotions and just keep it. Sorry for that. and YES guess sometimes I lose hope. Libra men often have a hard time speaking their feelings, and they often bottle up their emotions. Libras are a lot about words. Hehe. Or so I thought. Like you might know, Libras absolutely hate confrontation. I know that sounds brash, and probably just as bad as how Librans have been painted on here, but there is a very specific driving force as to why I acted the way that I did, and it's because of how how she treated my children. Yes we can be lazy, but if its its something were definitely interested in were quick to run to it and work hard at it! I cant speak for every libra but i know I hate myself everyday and wish i were never born bc of how i can be, i especially should've never been reckless and had children to carry my guilt. They may share common general characteristics but that's it. I, never classify anyone by gender, rase, ethnic aspect, sexuality or beliefs. Yes I do throw tantrums and become manipulative but only when I am wronged and taken advantage of for a long time. Simply with using second person nouns such as "You can," and "You should.". When I say Mr. Libra 2 was pursuing me, it was LOVEBOMBING!!! I was a big fool. They know what needs to be done in order to get what they want,and its most likely theyll get it one way or another. But when with him, its a real fight not to let myself go to that dark, vindictive, ruthless place. It may be expected that she will behave in a manner that reveals that she is not quite herself. When she is overcome by sadness or melancholy, it is certain that her emotions will have a drastic impact on the choices that she makes. RELATED: What Taurus Is Like In Relationships. They are the true incarnations of the narcissists! Yes I do get angry and yes I get angry a lot sometimes. While it is true that Libras can be skilled . And what's described in the article is more like a personality disorder, rather than a dark side. Theres so many sides to a Libra, such exciting creatures. They have this bubbly, sweet and openminded personality and claim to only want peace; until you realize how much they crave dramas with all their badmouhthing against the people they claim to be "friends". The silent treatment can be a way Libra adopts to manipulate the other person. They need someone to talk to about their problems, in order to help them navigate life. We can see all sides to all things.all dimensions.all patterns..all rhythms.all nuances. I searched under "Star signs related to types of crimes" and got the shocking result: Paedophilies = Librans. Because of this, she may start spending time with new people or strengthen relationships with other friends. Off course, I am not going to vent on strangers when I am wronged by a close one as it will not be justified. So you can imagine how short lived the relationships are. When Libras get sad they feel like their heart is breaking. This has happened to me more than twice in my life at very different times and situations(in a relationship, almost boyfriend, friend, boss) with men and women libras. Because of your interest in an Aquarius woman in your , The relationship that you maintain with an Aquarius man must , It is likely that you will find that the behaviors , If you want to show your guy just how much , Regardless of the nature of your relationship, it is certain , what happens when each zodiac sign is sad, how to have a healthy relationship with a Libra woman. Why do you people interact with us? When it comes to our fakeness, I put on a smiley face on every single freaking morning even if dying inside, because it's not fair to people who surround me. Searching on the net about paedophiles I found out that most of them were committed by librans. They usually have a sense of "me against the world," which can make them feel helpless when depression hits. 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